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Try to calmly think through why exactly you've been putting it off and take a problem-solving approach to each reason or 'excuse' you come up with. Before making a decision to end a relationship, you should always weigh the reasons for walking out.

No, but I have saw other people in that situation so I avoid getting into relationships unless it's absolutely necessary, and the I feel the person is truly genuine. In public, say most of About.

How to end a (long-term) relationship confidently and gracefully, and leave with dignity

Why do so many individuals wait for that special soulmate, to be everything they wanted, and how does this fantasy blind them, creating bitter disillusionment and heartache? How is real intimacy achieved? Why relationships end badly? Many are on the conquest to find their perfect soulmate, who can meet all their needs, to be their rock or give them unconditional love. Yet they become disappointed when the person they pined after does not meet these needs. The limits of reality and life take over relationships so that special partner cannot be totally available to meet all their needs, causing a painful disappointment. The hopeful fantasy of finding this perfect soulmate can actually blind them, creating despair, from the disillusionment about what to expect from relationships. Why Relationships End Badly: After the honeymoon shine is over, the real relationship emerges, as partners give up trying to impress each other. Many will sacrifice their self, move countries and devote themselves entirely to their partner, hoping the love will be reciprocated in return. Yet they become hurt, feel betrayed or angry when their partner does not return the hard work and efforts that they put in the relationship. All of a sudden their desired partner says they are nagging or attacking them, and so they drift away further, not understanding all the self-sacrifices and losses that one has faced for the disillusioned fantasy of finding unconditional love. If you change your life to suit your relationship, compromising or sacrificing oneself; then this can destroy relationships or cause the relationship to end badly. Healthy Relationships start with a Healthy Sense of Self A healthy relationship begins with a healthy sense of self. By attending to our own needs, motivations, desires, and aspirations, allows us to feel whole and happy inside. We then have more capacity and inner resources to fulfill our own self-esteem, so we do not become dependent on a relationship to fulfill our own happiness. Looking for happiness in others, causes many to feel anxious, depressed and alone. Relying on others to make us feel good about ourselves is unrealistic, it escapes one from facing painful feelings inside, by looking for others to take it away. Relationship counseling offers individuals the opportunity to work on their self or relationship. Seeing a psychotherapist or relationship specialist can resolve these relationship patterns so they do not become repeated and continually acted out. Many spouses will project their past hurts or unmet needs onto their partner, hoping that their quest for love will be finally met, but sadly this revives their pain and distress, leading relationships to breakdown. Many enter therapy when they reached the depths of their despair, to avoid these hurts, and actually end up reliving all the anxiety and depression that they attempted to avoid. So they forego their own individual identity or aspects of themselves to meet the expectations of their spouse. All of sudden their spouse sees them as the abusive partner or the drunk who does not care how they treat them. Healthy relationships create real love, by expressing their self. To foster a healthy relationship, partners must firstly register themselves, how they are feeling, and raise important topics, before issues get out of hand. In order to dismantle destructive relational patterns that cause couples to become stuck, couples can get in touch with themselves by expressing their feelings, fears, thoughts, and needs. It is important to share how one feels, in a calm, modulated way, rather than in the heat of the moment. So underlying feelings get expressed, to invite a closer connection, rather than anger being vented. They can begin to feel a closer connection, as they share aspects of themselves and foster deeper intimacy between them, in a real way. When partners receive an attuned response with understanding, they can move past relational ruptures and restore the couple bond. Photo Credits: Nancy is a Counsellor and Psychotherapist, as well as Couples Therapist. She assists individuals and couples to become unstuck from self-perpetuating patterns. She is specialised in the treatment of personality disorders, from the psychoanalytic International Masterson Institute, New York. Nancy has attended psychoanalytic conferences around the world, and been a clinical trainer and supervisor. She has worked as a therapist for over 18 years. She has a Masters of Soc.

I never want to hurt like that again but I do realize I can't sit at home forever if I do want to find someone. If you are a hyper-realistic glad with the right balance of optimism and cynicism while your partner prefers to ignore reality and wear rose-colored glasses all the time, the two of you will get frustrated with each other quite soon, which will drive a wedge between the two of you. Many men and jesus suffer relationship ending badly years and never bring problems up with their partners, which is what leads to many breakups. Why relationships end badly. Remaining goal-directed with respect to your work and the rest of your life can strengthen your sense of self at a time when you are solo. Even more so if they have lived in the same home in the duration of their relationship. To be friends, we'd have to go back, and frankly, I don't want to go back. Before you make this important decision, take the time to get input from solo friends and parents, people who may have helpful insight into your relationship issues. Being sure and well-prepared will help you do it more confidently and with empathy and compassion, when you want to leave your relationship.